Well, in order not to stay too far behind
Tjalco, here is my story....
I am Maria Helena Johanna Van Houten, born on April 20,
1957and because life is hard enough as it is, just call me Marleen.
The first six years I lived in the same city I was born
in, being The Hague, the third largest city in the Netherlands.
Then, the company where my father worked needed some
expansion and built a new factory with offices in a small town in the eastern
part of our country called Lochem,
and my parents decided to move with it, so my little brother and myself
being 4 and 6 years old at that time had no other option then to move with
them.
Lucky us. The eastern part of the country is far more
friendly and healthy for children to grow up in. Our house was in an area
with a wood nearby to play in. Lochem was however just large enough
to provide families with children with good schooling facilities and play
grounds, enough shops, restaurants and even a cinema/theatre. After
primary school and secondary school (HAVO for those who know anything of
the Dutch schooling system) and an (only one year lasting) attempt to become
a language teacher (English/French) I found myself a job as a receptionist. After that various other, mostly administrative and/or
sales, jobs followed, until I met this smiling "Teddy Bear": Tjalco.
After approx. 10 years of inofficially living together we officially got
married on 5th of October 2000 and I now am partly his secretary, partly his nurse
(him being a diabetic), partly a housewife, who likes to cook and who does
so quite well if I may believe those who have tasted the meals I prepared,
and why should I doubt them. I did however get some additional education
more as a hobby than actually wanting to work in that field. I got a diploma
that would allow me to start a bar/café as well as a diploma that
prooves me having enough knowledge of touristic matters to start working
at a travel agency. In August 2000 however, and that is not to be seen as a hobby, as
I am really very serious about it, I started a course to become an
officially qualified para-veterinarian. The photo on the left shows me
with our (second) dog - Jacky. Of the first one, called Dribbel, a
picture left-below (during our last holiday together, he was already ill then)
He died a few months later, on the 10th of July 2000, due to very severe kidney failure
which left us no other option than to have him put to sleep. I still
do miss him as he really was my little friend. During his illness I frequented
the local vets and found out that my brain as well as my heart (and also
my stomach !) could cope with looking at the socalled
"bad and bloody sides of veterinary practice". Being
(at that time) already 43 years of age and, until then, always considered
to be an "alpha" person (so hardly any mathematics, chemistry or biology
during secondary school) still becoming a "real" veterinarian was/is unfortunately
absolutely out of the question. Loving all animals (more than all people...)
this is therefore the best I can do... "My" veterinarians here in Borculo
have been a great help for they said "yes" when I asked them for
a position as a trainee (from 1st September 2001 until 1st March 2002). Thanks guys!
In April 2002 I passed my exams and also was lucky enough to find a job on a
"call off basis" with a veterinarian for small animals (dogs, cats,
rabbits, guinea pigs etc.) in Hengelo (in the province of Overijssel), which is
slightly more than a half hours drive from home. This is quite OK, because I do
work now and again amongst the creatures I love best, and Tjalco and
myself are still free to go to our house
in France for longer periods. With our dogs, yes we've got two, because in july
2003, we took in a little "stepbrother" for our, now 11 year old, Jacky: little Benny, 13 years of age
already but still going strong. Also a black dog and, like Dribbel and Jacky,
from the nearest SPCA-kennel. A picture of him, with Tjalco on the balcony
in France, hereunder↓.
Dribbel ↓